John Nachlinger 
Author, Attorney, Podcast Host, Men's Divorce Strategist

John Nachlinger is a divorce attorney, mediator, and strategist who has built his career helping people navigate one of life’s most painful transitions without destroying their future in the process. As the founder of a New Jersey–based family law firm focused on flat-fee, settlement-driven divorce solutions, he challenges the idea that divorce must be expensive, chaotic, and emotionally devastating.

 

John is the author of Get Divorced Without Getting Screwed, a practical, no-nonsense guide that exposes the common mistakes people make during divorce and shows how to protect finances, parenting time, and long-term stability. His work focuses on strategy over emotion, preparation over panic, and clarity over conflict.

 

Known for his direct but empathetic style, John frequently speaks on divorce strategy, financial protection, co-parenting dynamics, and the hidden costs of litigation. He is particularly passionate about helping men avoid the blindsiding mistakes that can cost them their money, their time with their children, and their peace of mind.
 

When he’s not advising clients or writing, John speaks to media outlets and audiences about smarter ways to approach divorce in today’s high-conflict world.